Kissing and Touching Techniques

by Ian Lewis

Kissing and Touching Techniques

I know you've been there - some man or woman is kissing you and it just isn't working out. Their lips are moving too fast or too slow, their tongue isn't in the right places and they're just grossing you out. And then comes the heavy hand that caresses you until it almost hurts. You wonder, 'What is wrong with this person?' And then you wonder if that person has ever been you. Is it possible that your technique has turned off a man or woman in the past? That you, of all people, may not be the best kisser or caresser in the world?

Nah, I didn't think so. But, I bet you could improve on a thing or two to impress your lover a little more today.

Rough Lips are not Okay Good lord people, invest in some chapstick. If you like the feel of soft, supple lips on yours, why do you subject your lover to your rough, cracked lips on a daily basis? Apply chapstick every day and you will feel a difference almost immediately. Remember that soft lips feel good in other places too. Who knew chapstick had so many benefits?

Secrets to a Great Kiss Kissing involves more than just lips. It encompasses your eyes, tongue, caresses and rhythm. Leaving out one of these elements will send you down the kissing road of shame - so be careful. Kissing your lover is a very intimate act that can be passionate and special. But only if you make it that way. Force or rush a kiss and you'll realize how impersonal it can be. So, look deep into the eyes of your lover and cup their face in your hands to make every kiss one to remember.

When you're kissing your lover, run your fingertips lightly over their back and arms. You'll probably feel the goose bumps and the kiss will intensify. Trace the outline of your partner's face or rub their neck gently as you're kissing. These tips will turn an ordinary kiss into extraordinary, and heighten the experience.

Little bites and grabs on the lips of your lover are often welcomed during kissing as well. The man or woman you're with is sure to let you know if they don't like it. So, try it.. Just be gentle until you know how much pressure they enjoy.

Variety is the spice of life and kissing isn't any different. If your lover can predict your every move when it comes to kissing, it's time to try something new. Lick your partners lips, stop mid-way through and begin licking your lovers neck or whispering in their ear.

Try a slow, sensual kiss followed by a deep kiss and don't forget the caressing! Constantly run your hands and fingers over your partner's body to show how much you desire them. Run your fingers through your partner's hair using your nails softly. Kiss the corners of their mouth before going in for the real thing or start at the neck of your lover and work your way up.

When you're kissing your lover, be aware of how they react. If they don't seem into it, switch your kissing technique and try something new. Just don't worry too much about what you're doing and let it come naturally.

Use the tips I've mentioned here and you won't have anything to worry about. So, what are you waiting for? Go find a pair of juicy lips and start practicing!

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